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A CONVERSATION WITH MY FUTURE SELF

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 Hi, I don't know who you are yet, but I'm writing anyway. I imagine you somewhere ahead, shaped by the choices I am too afraid or too hesitant to make. I wonder if you are patient. If you are kind. If you still treat people right. If you are happy and proud of yourself. If you have forgiven me for the times I stumbled and stayed silent. I want to ask you what it feels like to have lived through the waiting, the uncertainty, the self-doubt. Have you defeated fear and everything that tried to weigh you down? Did the quiet moments teach you as they teach me now? Did you still follow your dreams? Are you living the life you always wanted? Did you finally trust the rhythm of your own heart, or are you still listening for someone else’s approval? I want you to know that I am trying. I am trying to move even when fear whispers louder than courage. I am trying to speak even when words fail. I am trying to exist fully in the spaces between hesitation and action. I am trying to push and...

A CONVERSATION WITH SILENCE

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  The room had grown too quiet, but not the peaceful kind. My pen rested on a blank page, motionless, as though it had grown weary of waiting… endlessly. Across the room, crumpled pieces of paper were scattered everywhere. I’d been staring at the blank page longer than I care to admit. Words I once held with ease now seemed hidden, veiled in some unreachable past—like echoes trapped behind a curtain I could not draw back. At first, I panicked. What if I had lost it? What if the well had gone dry? I think every writer knows this fear, that moment you feel stuck, unable to express, unable to create. We call it writer’s block, and so I mistook it to be just that. But deep down, I knew it was something more… something different. Like something had shifted within me. I remembered how I struggled with words, how I begged them to come. I started missing how easy and overwhelming my words once were. Then I saw him. Silence. He had taken a seat right across from me. At first, I felt betraye...

DARE TO BE BOLD AND DIFFERENT

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     Amara had always been a shadow in the vibrant tapestry of her bustling city. She moved through the streets unnoticed, her head bowed, her voice barely above a whisper. Her world was painted in muted tones—safe, predictable, and quietly suffocating.   Amara's job at the local library suited her quiet nature. She spent her days cataloging books and her nights reading stories of heroes who broke the mold: explorers who ventured into the unknown, artists who defied convention, and thinkers who challenged the status quo. She admired their courage, but deep inside, she believed boldness wasn’t meant for someone like her.   Until the day she met Luca.   Luca was everything Amara wasn’t—vibrant, unapologetic, and unafraid to stand out. His hair was dyed in shades of fire, and his laughter echoed like a melody through the library’s quiet halls. He wasn’t a regular visitor, but when he came, the room seemed to pulse with energy.   One rainy afternoon, Luca ...

THE MASK WE WEAR; THE ILLUSION OF KNOWING SOMEONE

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  I used to believe that time unravels the truth about people. That the longer you spend time with someone, sharing moments, exchanging thoughts, and seeing their world, the clearer they become.  I thought that deep conversations, mutual interests, understanding how they think, expressing passions, dreams, exchanging secrets …and everything in between were enou gh to truly know a person. I believed that years of friendship and love could give me access to the deepest parts of them. But I couldn't be more wrong. February was a month of revelation; it was unexpected, unsettling, unforgettable, and an eye-opener!. It showed and proved to me that we can never actually know a person. No matter how much we think we know someone, there’s always a part of them we just haven’t met. We all wear masks, although not necessarily out of deception but fear, habit, or maybe convenience. The truth is we can only see and know a person based on what they choose to share or show to us. Most times...